Your mental health is usually drastically improved when you use the techniques Dr. Kuhn teaches in this article. When you’re able to to experience this improvement, your relationships blossom, career paths open, and people find you attractive and accessible. You enjoying fun and joy that you experienced – and Cliff Kuhn, M.D. will help you do that.
In the classic Frank Capra film, It is a Wonderful Life, George Bailey’s mental health is at a loss for the difficulties of his life and that he wishes he’d never been born. George’s guardian angel grants his wish and takes him to a grim reality because it would’ve been without him. George feels nothing when he reaches into his coat pocket to retrieve the flower his daughter, Zuzu, placed there – and that’s when George recognizes that his wish originates true…he’s never been born.
Wishing she’d never been born, Roberta became my patient, seeking desperately to enhance her mental health. Like the fictional George Bailey character, Roberta’s depression and anxiety had grown so strong as to threaten her ability to lead any semblance of a normal life. Fortunately for Roberta, she soon discovered exactly why natural medicine of humor is among the most effective adjunctive treating improving mental health, because humor literally pours water on the fire of depression and anxiety.
Roberta is not alone. As much as 35% of Americans suffer from depression and anxiety, the twins which make mental health elusive for millions. Your depression and anxiety is exacerbated by your seriousness – taking yourself too seriously. Once we transfer to adulthood, we unfortunately buy into the idea that responsible and productive people must be “serious.” Once we result in the biggest mistake of our lives and relegate our humor nature and fun to outdoor recreation (as we experience fun whatsoever), we doom ourselves to any or all the the signs of the related seriousness that fills the void – declining health, rising stress, increased pain, lessened energy, impaired creativity, and more.
What’s promising for the mental health, however, is that we all know how to shrink your deadly seriousness to absolutely nothing and reduce almost completely the sway it holds over your health, vitality, wellness, and zest. Natural medicine of humor is an incredibly powerful resource that you already possess; you’ve only forgotten how to use it to maximum effectiveness. It’s easy to realize that, whilst not a panacea, the natural medicine of humor is really a tremendous tonic for depression or anxiety and will also supercharge anything else since it is an incredible adjunctive medicine too!
I have distilled the natural medicine of humor, through my many years of medical practice, into an amazing prescription I call The Fun Factor. Depending on things i learned over twenty years ago from the crictally ill fifteen-year-old patient, I made a unique group of principles I call the Fun Commandments, then forged these Commandments into my Fun Factor prescription and also have been prescribing The Fun Factor with positive results for years. This report will show you how to use just three of my Fun Commandments to show your mental health around, and gain new joy, pleasure, and appreciation out of your life!
Improve Your Mental Health Using My Fun Factor Prescription
The first step: Always Go the additional Smile
The very first Fun Commandment I suggest for improved mental health is: Always Go the additional Smile. This Commandment is doubly helpfully for depression and anxiety because it doesn’t only provide measurable emotional and physical relief, but it also is completely under your control – regardless of your circumstances. Because smiling remains totally beneath your control, it may be your greatest resource for implementing humor’s natural medicine to accelerate your mental health.
Smiling produces measurable physical benefits you can have immediately: your stress levels decreases, your immunity improves, your pain and frustration tolerances increase, as well as your creativity soars. And guess what? You experience each one of these benefits even if your smile is “fake.” That’s right…forcing a smile on your face perks up your defense mechanisms and lightens your mood just like readily as a genuine smile. Fake a grin and you’ll soon feel good enough to wear a genuine one!
This is very good news for the proactive stance on sustainable mental health. You possess an amazing amount of pre-emptive control over your mood – you can, literally, choose more energy and happiness. The important thing for your use of the Fun Commandment in giving you better mental health would be to start practicing at this time, so that smiling becomes an entrenched, habitual approach to accessing natural medicine of humor. Should you wait to smile until your mental health has taken a turn for the worse, and depression or anxiety has had your hands on you, it will not be as effective.
Second step: Act and Interact
Smiling leads us directly into the second Fun Commandment you’ll find instrumental to maintain your mental health: Act and Interact. Humor’s natural medicine works best if we are sharing ourselves and this Commandment will teach you how to capitalize on the control you’ve absorbed your physiology and mood by smiling. Acting and interacting has become easier for you to complete because you’re smiling more. Not only is your mood improved, but your smile is another pleasant invitation to other people.
My suggestion is that you solidify the strength of this Commandment by setting an acceptable goal concerning the number of people you’ll interact with each day. These social interactions are great for your mental health, forcing you to definitely exchange information and concepts with another person. Combined with your resolve for smiling, your interactions should be pleasant, since your heightened energy, lessened pain, and lowered stress levels are extremely appealing to others.
Beyond keeping you out of isolation, there’s one more reason why acting and getting together with the folks you encounter fosters improved mental health. It allows you to avoid spiritual “flat tires.” Spiritual flat tires occur when you sidestep, or avoid, an interaction that’s about to take place naturally – you duck into an office to prevent encountering someone in a hallway or else you don’t answer the phone since you don’t want to talk to the individual calling. This type of avoidance drains and deletes your reservoir of powerful natural energy and siphons your mental health reserves.
Have you ever noticed that it usually goes double the amount mental and physical energy to avoid carrying out a job than you would have expended just doing the work? Additionally, it takes twice the energy to prevent acting and interacting with the folks who arrive because you are, in effect, saying, “I’m going to correct the mistake that nature made by putting this individual in my path and i am going to correct it when you are mentally and spiritually negligent.” Mental and spiritual negligence have the same effect as physical negligence (is it not strange how you get tired if you do not exercise?). In case your mental health can afford to allow that much energy to be drained, then you’ve a significantly bigger reservoir than I!
But spiritual flat tires do a lot more than drain our energy, they are detrimental in a minimum of two additional ways:
We miss out on an interaction with a teacher. If nature didn’t have a lesson for you, that individual you simply avoided wouldn’t happen to be placed in your path. You say that the individual you just avoided would be a negative influence or would’ve wasted your time and effort? I understand we have legitimate schedules to keep, but when I’m avoiding people depending on my prejudgment of these, I’m cutting myself off from my greatest teachers – those very same people.
All of us learn tolerance from the intolerant, patience from the impatient, temperance from the intemperate, gentleness from the ruffian, etc. I’m supremely grateful for all those teachers and the lessons they give me.
We create a small, nagging spiritual void of dishonesty, the kind of dishonesty that keeps us from laying our heads down with complete peace of mind every night. Our spiritual flat tire is brought on by the pothole our avoidance created; it is a natural consequence, or symptom, in our spiritual dishonesty. These consequences clutter our lives with mental and emotional baggage that further drains us of our energy and vitality.
Step Three: Celebrate Everything
The third Fun Commandment which supports you use the natural medicine of humor to replenish your mental health is: Celebrate Everything. Celebrating everything may sound just like a monumental task to someone who’s mental health isn’t up to par, but you will find this part of my doctor’s orders easier to satisfy when you start practicing my first two Commandments. In fact, celebrating things are greater than a maintenance step providing sustainable mental health. It will likewise become the perfect lifestyle, the greater you practice it, because you will enjoy the outcomes a lot.
How can you celebrate everything and how will this keep the mental health on the upswing? The epitome of this Commandment is found in the old joke concerning the boy who wanted a pony for his birthday. Instead, he found a room full of manure awaiting him. But he dove right into the dung, gleefully exclaiming, “With all this manure, there’s reached be considered a pony in here somewhere!”
Laugh once we might, we’re quick to understand that, as adults, we would never allow ourselves such “naive” enthusiasm. Why not? Are you aware what’s behind this type of “grown up,” “mature” decision? Your deadly seriousness (taking yourself too seriously) encourages the attitude that a mature adult should not let herself be so optimistic and therefore mental health is jeopardized.
We could do a lot more than chuckle only at that birthday boy’s unabashed optimism – we should emulate it! Just when was the final time you encountered an unexpected pile of manure that you experienced? You had simply no treatments for the mess, right? However, you had absolute control over your reaction to it which is paramount to presenting celebration to keep your mental health improved!
Whenever you celebrate everything, the natural medicine of humor creates spiritual, emotional, and mental health like nothing you’ve felt before. You will find that your fears become a smaller amount controlling when you are celebrating everything because it no more matters a lot how things come out. In fact, you are literally ready for anything because you are prepared to discover the blessing in no matter what.
My daughter-in-law, for instance, broke her back this past year. My son, who is often my model for that embodiment of my Fun Commandments, can tick off a laundry listing of blessings his family has brought as a direct result of his wife’s “tragedy.” Not too his mental health was not challenged, but confronted with the option of depression and anxiety over an event he couldn’t control versus finding the blessings awaiting him, he’s chosen the second.
The choice to celebrate things are not really a panacea; my son’s choice did not change the reality of his wife’s injury. What did change, however, was his capability to react to the injury and, thus, keep his mental health on an even keel. Celebrating everything changes our way of life since it allows us to positively control the only real things we now have treatments for – our actions, ideas, and attitudes.